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Saturday, 26 March 2011

Women’s Rights Awareness Seminar 2011




Women’s Rights Awareness Seminar
And Celebration of women’s day
Day Feb 8, 2011
Report of Seminar Organized by and Held at
Hope development organization (HDO)
an NGO in Faisalabad, Pakistan
Febaury 8, 2011, 10: 00AM to 12:30PM
Reported by: Shabnam Noman, Secratory General of HDO
144 people in attendance (142 female, 2 male)

 The seminar started with prayer by Ms, Perveen.
Dr. Shameem Arshad, Program Coordinator, HDO, welcomed all the participants and presented an introduction to HDO DOH    and its activities.  Then she invited first speaker Dr. Shabnam Noman.
Dr. Noman presented following:
Purdah or Child Marriage (Vani) is followed in many communities of Pakistan.  It is practiced in various ways, depending on family tradition, region, class, and rural or urban residence.  Although the Child Marriages Restraint Act makes it illegal for girls under the age of 16 to be married, instances of child marriages can be found. Vani is a custom followed in tribal areas and the Punjab province.  Girls are forcibly married off in order to resolve the feuds between different clans; the Vani can be avoided if the clan of the girl agrees to pay money, called Deet, to other clans.  Swara, Pait likkhi and Addo Baddo are similar tribal and rural customs that often promote marriage of girls in their early teenage years.
 Watta satta is a tribal custom in which brides are traded between two clans.  In order to marry off a son, parents must also have a daughter to marry off in return.  If there is no daughter to exchange in return for a son's spouse, a cousin, or a distant relative can be substituted. Even though Islamic law requires that both partners explicitly consent to marriage, women are often forced into marriages arranged by their fathers or tribal leaders.
Honor killings are still practiced in Pakistan.  A majority of the victims are women and the punishments meted out against the killers tend to be lenient. The practice of summary killing of a person suspected of an illicit liaison is known as karo kari in Sindh and Balochistan.  In December 2004, the Government passed a bill that made karo kari punishable under the same penal provisions as murder[44].  Many honor killings have been done against women who marry against their family’s wishes, who seek divorce or who have been raped.
Marriage to Quran is practiced in some parts of Sindh.  Marrying a woman to Quran is prevalent among landlords, although this practise is alien to Islam and has no religious basis. The practice is often used by men to get the land of their sisters and daughters.
Culture and dress:  Although the women’s dress varies depending on region, class and occasion, the shalwar kameez is the principal garment worn by Pakistani women. Ghararas (a loose divided skirt worn with a blouse) and lehengas were very common earlier, but now they are worn mostly at weddings.  Few Pakistani women wear the hijab or burqa in public and the degree to which they choose to cover varies.  Some Pakistani women who do not wear the hijab may wear the dupatta or chadar instead.  A Sari is a formal dress worn on special occasions by some mainly urban women. The so-called "Islamization" under General Zia ul Haq's dictatorship branded the sari as an "unIslamic" form of dress.  The sari is now making a comeback in fashionable circles.  Western garments such as T-shirts and Jeans are occasionally worn by young urban women. 
Education and economic development:  In Pakistan, women’s access to property, education, employment, etc., remains considerably lower thasn men’s.  The social and cultural context of Pakistani society is predominantly patriarchal.  Women have a low percentage of participation in society outside of the family.
Despite improvement in Pakistan’s literacy rate since its independence, the educational status of Pakistani women is among the lowest in the world.  The literacy rate for urban women is more than five times the rate for rural women.  The school dropout rate among girls is very high (almost 50 percent) and this despite educational achievements of female students being higher than male.
Patterns of women’s employment vary throughout the Muslim world.  As of 2005, 16% of Pakistani women were “economically active” (either employed, or unemployed but available to furnish labor), whereas 52% of Indonesian women were.
Although women play an active role in Pakistan's economy, their contribution has been grossly underreported in some censuses and surveys.  The 1991-92 Labor Force Survey revealed that only about 16% of women aged 10 years and over were in the labor force.  The World Bank's reports of 1997 stated that women constituted only 28% of the country's labor force. According to the 1999 report by the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan, only two percent of Pakistani women participate in the formal sector of employment.  However, the 1980 agricultural census stated that the women's participation rate in agriculture was 73%. The 1990-1991 Pakistan Integrated Household Survey indicated that the female labor force participation rate was 45% in rural areas and 17% the urban areas.  Pakistani women play a major role in agricultural production, livestock raising and cottage industries.
Land and property rights: Around 90% of the Pakistani households are headed by men and most female-headed households belong to the poor strata of the society.  Women lack ownership of productive resources. Despite women's legal rights to own and inherit property from their families, there are very few women who have access and control over these resources.

Other topics discussed
Crimes against women
Violence against women
Domestic violence
Acid throwing
Bride burning, Sati
Dowry death
Murder of pregnant women
Human trafficking
Sexual slavery
Forced prostitution
Sexual violence, Rape
Violence against prostitutes
Female genital cutting
Violence against women in Pakistan is a major problem.  Feminists and women's groups have criticized the Pakistani government and its leaders for whitewashing the persecution of women and trying to suppress information about their plight in the international arena.  Skepticism and biased attitudes against women’s complaints of violence are common among prosecutors, police officers and doctors in Pakistan.  Such complaints often face delayed or mishandled processing and inadequate or improper investigations.
Rape is one of the most common crimes against women but grossly underreported due to the shame attached to the victim.  Marital rape is not recognized as a criminal offense in Pakistani law.  Many cases of rape in police custody have also been reported.  According to Report of the Commission of Inquiry for Women (1997), 70 percent of women in police stations were subjected to sexual and physical violence.
Trafficking of women is on the rise in Pakistan. Foreign women from Afghanistan, Bangladesh, and Myanmar are brought to Pakistan and sold.
Dowry abuse is the cause of many cases of bride burning in Pakistan. The wife is typically doused with kerosene, gasoline, or other flammable liquid, and set alight, leading to death by fire.  In some cases, accidents are engineered (such as the tampering of a kitchen stove to cause victim's death) or the victims are set ablaze, claimed to be yet another accident or suicide. According to a 1999 report, of the sixty “bride-burning” cases that made it to the prosecution stage (though 1,600 cases were reported), only two resulted in convictions.  However, dowry abuse cases are low after 2001.
Domestic violence is not explicitly prohibited in Pakistani domestic law and most acts of domestic violence are encompassed by the Qisas and Diyat Ordinance.  The police and judges often tend to treat domestic violence as a non-criminal, private or family matter, or an issue for civil courts, rather than criminal courts.
A 1987 study conducted by the Women's Division and another study by the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan in 1996 suggested that domestic violence takes place in approximately 80 percent of the households in the country.  Domestic violence occurs in forms of beatings, sexual violence or torture, mutilation, acid attacks and burning the victim alive.
Acid throwing is a form of violent assault.  Perpetrators of these attacks throw acid at their victims (usually at their faces), burning them, and damaging skin tissue, often exposing and sometimes dissolving the bones.  The consequences of these attacks include blindness and permanent scarring of the face and body.  These attacks are common in Cambodia, Afghanistan, India, Bangladesh, and Pakistan.  According to Taru Bahl and M.H. Syed, 80% of victims of these acid attacks are female, and almost 40% are under 18 years of age.  Women in the Islamic Fundamentalist parts of Pakistan, such as the northern reaches around the Swat Valley, who do not cover their faces risk being attacked.  The theory is that if the women won’t hide their alluring faces, then they should be made too ugly to be alluring to men.
Marriage and divorce issues:  Often, inter-caste marriages in Pakistan are met with violence against the women in the families involved.  Women from low Pakistani castes who try to get an education are looked down upon and sometimes attacked, the case of Ghazala Shaheen being the most infamous one which prompted international outcry.
The average age of women for marriage has increased from 16.9 years in 1951 to 22.5 years in 2005.  A majority of women are married to their close relatives, i.e., first and second cousins.  Only 37 percent of married women are not related to their spouses before marriage.  The divorce rate in Pakistan is extremely low due to the social stigma attached to it.
Women who seek a divorce are often victims of honor killings.  One example is the high profile case of Samia Sarwar who was murdered in her lawyer's office on April 6, 1999 by a hitman hired by her family.  She was seeking a divorce from her estranged, abusive husband, which was deemed as dishonorable by her family.  Due to Samia's father being a prominent figure in the community, the police charged Samia's lawyers, Hina Jilani and Asma Jahangir, with kidnapping his daughter.  Samia's father additionally demanded that Hina Jilani and Asma Jahangir be dealt with in accordance with tribal and Islamic law and be arrested for misleading women in Pakistan and contributing to the country’s bad image abroad.  Several people belonging to religious organizations issued fatwas against both female lawyers and promised to pay rewards to anyone who would kill them.
Health:  The health indicators of women in Pakistan are among the worst in the world. Intra-household bias in food distribution leads to nutritional deficiencies among female children.  Early marriages of girls, excessive childbearing, lack of control over their own bodies, and a high level of illiteracy adversely affect women's health.  More than 40 percent of the total female population are anemic.
According to 1998 figures, the female infant mortality rate was higher than that of male children.  The maternal mortality rate is also high, as only 20 percent of women are assisted by a trained provider during delivery.  Only nine percent of the women used contraceptives in 1985, however this figure has increased substantially.
Women are at a higher risk of contracting HIV-AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) because of male dominance in sex relations and lack of access to information.
The sex ratio in Pakistan is somewhat unbalanced with 1.05 men per 1 female.  This phenomenon is attributable to male-favored sex ratio at birth (preference for sons).  In the urban areas, the sex ratio is still lower, which could be attributed to a large male out-migration from rural to urban areas.  The conservative Muslim families also refuse to give strangers any information about females in their household.  This has been a major problem for census officials in Pakistan and also in Afghanistan.
Eve teasing is a euphemism used in India and sometimes Pakistan, Bangladesh and Nepal for public sexual harassment, street harassment or molestation of women by men, with Eve being a reference to the biblical Eve.  Women, especially Westerners, who dress immodestly face this annoying prank. 
Dr. Noman, explained to participants that they could have equal rights in this society if they know how to get them and stand for them. She explained the protection laws which are recently implemented by the government of Pakistan and which encourage women to speak about their rights and violence against them.  She said that women are very important to this society.  Her lecture was much appreciated by all participants and at the end of the seminar all participants had a nice lunch together arranged by HDO.
Reported by:
Dr. Shameem Arshad
Program Coordinator
Hope Development Organization

Saturday, 19 February 2011

Man and Religion.

Man and Religion.
 
 
Conflicts between religions are one of major problems in this world.  Religion is the one of the biggest obstacles to obtaining global peace.  I don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings or insult their beliefs.  Although I claim to be a Christian, I am far from a true Christian. 
 
Each of us wants to see the things around us become the way we want them, and we want everyone to want same things we want and to follow our dreams.  But in reality this does not happen.  Anger often follows frustration, and it brings many problems with it.
 
Who decides which religion each of us belongs to?  A baby does not decide which family he is born into, and most of us retain the religion of our heritage.  If I were born into a Hindu family, I would be a strong Hindu because I would see my parents and family following that religion and begin believing as a child that it is the only truth in this world and the others are false.  My parents would help me to develop this attitude by telling me that all other religions are false and we should stay away from them.  
 
Where does religion come from?  I believe that every human senses unseen power around him.  He imagines some bigger power at work in nature and in him, to support him in every hard time.  He comes to believe that he should follow and worship in traditional ways. 
 
It is in the nature of us to want our surroundings strong and safe.  In old times, humans slept in caves, believing they he were safe there.  They made fire and believed that demons and animals would stay away from fire.  Some of them even worshipped fire.  I do not deny that religion comes from God.  I am only giving an example of wrong attitudes which develop naturally according to human nature and which create many problems.
 
Many people say that most of the religions came here from God and have spread throughout the world by his prophets.  Unfortunately, we do not really follow the prophet’s instructions.  But claim that we do.  In this deluded way each of us claims to be a good Muslim, Christian, or other devotee.  But when we claim ourselves good Christians, do we ever think that we are really claiming to be following Jesus and imitators of his behaviors when he was here?  For example:
 
1. He never hurt anyone.  He went about promoting human welfare by healing them from medical problems.
 
2. He taught about one almighty God.
 
3. He talked with normal people, even with those who were hated by others.
 
4. He never taught us to kill.
 
5. He forgave people, even those who were killing him on the cross. 
 
Jesus is the best example of tolerance and acceptance.  The apostle Paul admonishes Christians to think and act like Jesus (Philippians 2:5).  Why do we claim to be good Christians when we do not follow him?
 
Muhammad also taught us about equal rights, love, care, and respect for others. We can find many examples in the Quran:
 
1. He was kind with elders, children, and women.
 
2. He spoke about justice.
 
3. He forgave others when they treated him badly.
 
4. He helped others in need.
 
It is written in the Quran that if you kill one man it means you kill the whole of humanity.  Now the question is: Are Muslims are really following him?  
 
Other prophets have similar qualities, and their teachings are almost the same.  In Buddhism, they even avoid killing small creeping things because they believe even these have feelings.
 
If all the prophets teach us about love, peace, caring and tolerance, then why is religion a major obstacle in the process?  I believe it is because we have made religion into something it is not.  The activities that we call religious and the beliefs that we associate with religion are not, in most cases, true religion.  Few of us apply those teachings of our religions which aim at keeping selfish human thoughts in check.  Instead, we cling to those teachings that support our selfish interests and discard the rest.  In this way we claim that we have the one true religion and that all others are false.  We pursue objectives based mostly on greed, and call our actions religious.  We consider our prophets as messengers of God but we seldom follow their teachings. 
 
Most of the problems in this world are caused by religion and greed.  In the names of Christianity and Islam we have killed millions.  Is that what religions are here for?  Absolutely not.  The leaders of our religions use innocent people for achieving their financial and political objectives.  They are not really followers of their own religions.
 
  It is a curious observation that when someone abuses a man, calling his mother a bad name, a fight seldom follows.  If his sister or mother is called a bad name, he seldom fights to protect her honor.  But when his religion is slandered with bad words he becomes very angry and ready for a fight to the death.  Do we hold the ‘honor” of our religion, which teaches peace and forgiveness, above the honor of our loved ones?
 
Belief is a very sensitive thing.  It starts to develop when we are very young.  We believe that our parents are doing the only right thing.  Soon the notion grows in us that our belief is the only truth and all other beliefs are false.  When we become thirty years old and someone abuses our religion, we can’t take it.
 
Is this is normal?  I believe it is not.  We can’t change all the minds and behaviors of people in which such abnormal behaviors are already strong.  But we can teach our children that they should respect other’s beliefs.  They should learn that religion is not a thing to fight for.  Rather, it is each person’s personal way to worship.  We belong to the same world and have mostly the same feelings.

Wednesday, 16 February 2011

Hope Development Organization

Greetings from Hope Development Organization Faisalabad!

Hope Development Organization is a National NGO, struggling for the Women rights in Pakistan, it
is registered under the societies registration Act XX1 1860, Joint Stock Companies. HDO was
founded in the year of 1997 by a Feminist group of women and Women equal rights believers in
the result of horrible crimes against women in Pakistan like Purdah or Child Marriage (Vani) ,
Honor killings, Domestic violence, Acid throwing, Bride burning,  Watta satta , Sati, Dowry death,
Murder of pregnant women, Human trafficking, Sexual slavery, Forced prostitution, Sexual violence,
Rape, Violence against prostitutes, Female genital cutting, No doubt Pakistani government take
quick actions on complains and had made few laws to protect women rights, but still there are
more then 84 % cases and stories are invisible because of the fear in women of this society.
Although women play an active role in Pakistan's economy, their contribution has been grossly
under reported in some censuses and surveys.  The 1991-92 Labor Force Survey revealed that
only about 16% of women aged 10 years and over were in the labor force.  The World Bank's
reports of 1997 stated that women constituted only 28% of the country's labor force. According to
the 1999 report by the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan, only two percent of Pakistani
women participate in the formal sector of employment.  However, the 1980 agricultural census
stated that the women's participation rate in agriculture was 73%. The 1990-1991 Pakistan
Integrated Household Survey indicated that the female labor force participation rate was 45% in
rural areas and 17% the urban areas.  Pakistani women play a major role in agricultural
production, livestock raising and cottage industries.
Land and property rights: Around 90% of the Pakistani households are headed by men and most
female-headed households belong to the poor strata of the society.  Women lack ownership of
productive resources. Despite women's legal rights to own and inherit property from their families,
there are very few women who have access and control over these resources.
HDO is working with the depressed, opposed marginalized communities specially women for
their empowerment, social economic development, and transformation and uplifting them towards
sustainable development.
It works to promote Women Skill Development Program, Inter-Faith Harmony and Peace Building
with youth, Education, Health and Emergencies and Relief.
We believe in a participatory approach on different proposals, identified by the communities that
are helpful for their development, improvement and rehabilitation.
HDO seeks input from the people it serves.  The goal is to analyze a situation by discussion on
social, cultural, economic, Women rights, religious and political issues through group meetings
and case studies, try to sort-out problems and arrive at solutions with community input.  No
program remains fixed for very long, but changes with follow-up evaluations.  HDO believes that
through International participation, services are more effective and sustainable.  It is an evolving
process.

Our vision:Transform deprived lives through sustainable development, with emphases on physical, social
and economic help through medicine, encouragement, Women rights awareness and skill
trainings.  
Our Mission:Educating our children in the ways of peace and empowering our women as equal citizens we can
defeat the evil in our land.
Objectives* To help women change their own unsatisfactory situations.
* Improve the literacy rate of women and working children.
* Promote harmony among people of diverse economic status and religion.
* Train women for the workplace and increase their confidence.
* Provide assistance to the disabled.
* Provide health services and awareness in HIV/Aids, hepatitis, drugs, tuberculosis and polio.
* Assist communities in defining their needs, and then define our programs.


Regards, love and peace
Dr. Shabnam Nazli
Chairperson: Hope Development Organization
Email: chairperson@hopedevelopment.org
web site: www.hopedevelopmentpk.org